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My boyfriend is too attractive for me

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This was three years ago and Mickael and I were in a long-distance relationship at the time. A wave of insecurity flooded over me. What did Mickael, now 38 see in a diminutive, curly-haired specimen like me? At 6ft 2in tall, with broad shoulders, black hair, a Roman nose and incredible blue eyes, Mickael is the living embodiment of tall, dark and handsome. I know I sound smug, but bear with me. Most of them, in my experience, are false and offensive.

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But, there will always come a point where his good looks and great personality take a toll on you. Everyone around him says nothing but compliments. When you first introduce him to the people around you, you can see their eyes lighten up, some of them, stunned. It just makes you feel less.

Truth be told, there is no point in comparing. Sometimes, it will make you feel more undeserving than jealous. There are times when you feel unworthy, just because he is way out of your league.

The more you stare at his gorgeous face, the more you start feeling ugly for yourself. The public eye is a meticulous one. Walking in public places with him is not solely a romantic stroll, but is also a conscious walk. You get used to people gazing at him with amusement, while you get the second look of judgment. You strive hard to look good and act nice as much as you can to at least be a presentable partner, even if it entails stepping out of your comfort zone.

Everywhere you go, everyone looks for him. Your family. People enjoy his company. Everyone wants to be associated with him. So when you let him in your circle, be ready to be the second best. Everyone is so attached to him that you feel like your very existence depends on whether he is present or not. You feel lucky for he makes you feel great in times when you think less of yourself. That you are loved just the way you are.

Most of all, you feel wonderful to see how great he is from the inside. For when others see his gorgeous face, astounding personality and irresistible charm, he lets you see through his soul.

You see his flaws. You feel his frustrations. To you, he is most vulnerable. What else would that make you feel? Well, most of the time. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time. By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. You feel beautiful. Well, not all the time. You feel inferior. You feel pressured. You feel like he steals your show. You feel dependent.

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What It Really Feels Like To Have An Incredibly Attractive Boyfriend

But, there will always come a point where his good looks and great personality take a toll on you. Everyone around him says nothing but compliments. When you first introduce him to the people around you, you can see their eyes lighten up, some of them, stunned. It just makes you feel less. Truth be told, there is no point in comparing.

Well he doesn't flirt back because he's more of an introverted type of guy, he keeps more to himself.. What can I do to overcome these feelings?

This is simply a common situation that most couples find themselves in after being together for a few years. You might begin to take each other for granted. Small, unprocessed arguments start to stack up and resentment quietly builds, like a subtle din in your partnership. Like anything worth having, getting the spark back is going to require a bit of effort. Effort that is well worth it.

I feel insecure because my boyfriend is TOO good looking!

The other day, at a Fashion Week party, my friend Alan and I stood against a wall, scanning the room for hot people, as you do. I told him that, at 31, the realization was probably a bit overdue, but I knew what he meant: As one gets older, it becomes harder and harder to be attracted to someone simply because of the way they look. Or perhaps we become more acutely aware of the impermanence of beauty after experiencing our own signs of aging? While some people clearly feel proud to have a hottie on their arm, others are more comfortable having the upper hand in the beauty department. Millie and I lived together during our early and mid-twenties, and at the time, it felt like every other week she had a new model boyfriend. Most of us, at some point in our lives, have hung posters of models and movie stars on our bedroom walls. And no matter how much I love my partner, I still occasionally masturbate to Tony Ward. And, according to economist Daniel S. Hamermesh, author of Beauty Pays: Why Attractive People Are More Successful , there are also many economic benefits to looking good, from higher wages at work to getting better deals on loans. But according to Millie, all of this unearned praise and attention can present problems in relationships.

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Mar 30, - I (F24) never really struggled with insecurities that much before meeting my boyfriend (M25). I'll admit, I know I'm “better than average” in looks, and I've had many  What are your thoughts on dating a guy who is "too attractive.

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