How to find a high quality man
If you've been disappointed by the guys you've dated, or feel like dating is hard, I'd like you to know that you can change your experience of dating for the better. Instead of thinking the guys you meet are left up to chance or you have to wait to get chosen by a guy, you can influence the kind of men who show up in your life. As a dating and relationship coach, when women first start coaching with me, they sense they are doing things that keep them from dating better men. What they don't realize initially and do learn during our coaching sessions are that they unintentionally and unknowingly stand in their own way of meeting and dating higher quality men. Once they internalize and understand they are standing in their own way, it transforms their experience of dating and relationships.
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Looking for a super high quality man? You gotta be THIS first….
If you are NOT with a high quality man who simply adores and cherishes you and treats you like a Princess…. How do you step up into the best version of yourself possible so that you are truly ready for your Prince Charming? Or waiting for someone to finish their sentence so that you can jump in and offer your amazing and superior opinion!?
There are two issues that survey said are the hugest frustrations that men have with women. Number 1 reason I go over later on in 19…. The second biggest issue men have with women is their inability to listen to them.
They ask a question. Get impatient while waiting for the answer, and interrupt their man. Or answer the question for them. Or start to listen to the answer and assume they can answer it better and interject. In fact, one of the biggest frustrations women have with men is the amount of time it takes them to actually answer a question! Give your man space to process. To think. And then when he actually replies, bite your tongue. Give him time to get it all out. Or in life for that matter. Instead, open yourself up.
Ask questions. Why does this person act a certain way? Why did he not call you when he said he would? I suck. Instead of trying to be right…. But ultimately, the way someone was raised affects how they believe and think and thereby the way to perceive their reality. When you make it a point to understand the other person instead of judge or change the other person, the energetics of the relationship shift in a huge way!
The quickest way to live a life of pain and struggle and misery is to live in a reality that you wish was different from the present one. When we can shift our awareness to a simply acceptance that: this is my life. And I love it. And I accept it. When we accept what is, we no longer gripe.
We no longer complain. We no longer struggle and push to make things fit into a mold of what we believe in our minds is socially acceptable. Instead, when we are open to accepting what is, we are essentially open to the miracles that can unfold simply because we are in alignment with life. Too often we are caught up in our minds. Today is a gift. But what I mean is this: any long term healthy relationship is more about giving than receiving.
Then you have two very happy and loving people simply in LOVE in their relationship…. And if your past is not healed, how can you be fully present in the your next relationship? Even opening up to share past pains and hurts is a sign of emotional stability.
Instead, embrace them. You are a woman who runs around with a body filled with intense emotions at any given moment! And the sexiest side, too. Care for yourself. This shows that you are number 1 priority. And a high quality man will see how much you love and respect and adore yourself and want to offer that exact type of treatment to you! Have fun!! Life is meant to be enjoyed.
Couples that laugh together, stay together! So in what ways can you add more joy to your life today? As she loses trust for him, she stops respecting him. This leads to a clash of opinions and a battle for control.
Be the best version of you that you can be. Opposites attract. One masculine energy and one feminine energy. Understanding these differences and learning how to soften into your feminine essence so that you can attract in a masculine man is extremely important to a healthy and high quality relationship.
Looking for help? My Irresistibility masterclass is the route for you!! This means not having to be in control!
This means being able to go with the flow. This means allowing the guy to take the lead and make decisions. So many women try to control their relationships and control their men like they try to control their lives. That you are certainly not a temple and deserve to be treated as a prize that has to be worked for and earned.
Want to learn more on this? Check out my recent truthtuesdays episode! You respect his beliefs and his opinions. That is a huge act of disloyalty. And that is not loyalty. You want to prove from the very beginning that you are a woman who stands behind her man. You respect his opinions. Loyalty also means supporting your man and sticking up for him. Being his vice president. Someone he knows that always has his back regardless of what the world throws at him. Men have feelings, too. And it can be hard for them to open up.
By being loyal to a man from the very beginning, he feels safe to open up to you! Being a strong powerful woman equates with knowing and understanding her emotions. On the contrary, she understands her emotions. She does not allow her emotions to control her. This is the lowest quality action you can take. I know. I surveyed over men ages 20 to 80 and it ranked on top of the biggest frustration men have with women.
It lowers your own personal vibration. And it certainly changes the opinions of what others think of you. Want more proof? Still a best seller almost years later! We all carry baggage with us from past relationships: relationships with our parents, lovers, colleagues, etc. Unravel yourself first before you jump into a relationship. Relationships are vehicles for spiritual growth. This one is my favorite! At any given moment in our lives, we are vibrating at a certain frequencycy.
And that is the energy we are broadcasting out into the universe. If men are consistently blowing you off, or showing up late to dates or not responding to your texts, ask yourself in what ways in your life are you blowing off others? Are you also not respecting the time of others?
Looking for a super high quality man? You gotta be THIS first…. Like energy attracts like energy. We attract to us what we ARE. Listen Have you ever been guilty of interrupting? Of course you have! Number 1 reason I go over later on in 19… The second biggest issue men have with women is their inability to listen to them.
If you are NOT with a high quality man who simply adores and cherishes you and treats you like a Princess…. How do you step up into the best version of yourself possible so that you are truly ready for your Prince Charming? Or waiting for someone to finish their sentence so that you can jump in and offer your amazing and superior opinion!? There are two issues that survey said are the hugest frustrations that men have with women. Number 1 reason I go over later on in 19….
There are certain traits that the majority of heterosexual women look for in a man: kindness, GSOH, an understanding that the fight for gender equality is very much still ongoing. But other aspects of your personality could be a deal-breaker for one woman and simultaneously the reason another falls in love with you. With the advent of dating apps meaning another love interest is never more than a right swipe away, it can be hard to commit. So if you're wondering whether to settle down with your current partner, it might be worth taking a step back and asking yourself whether he ticks the boxes below.
The 10 Traits of High-Value Men (W/ Examples)
From my vantage point, nothing outlandishly extraordinary… and yet, a lot of commenters weighed in on the post with consistently surprising reactions. Note: I wrote the piece about men because the majority of the people who follow Elephant Journal are heterosexual women, so I framed the piece in a way that would appeal to the majority of their readers. Now, there is no such thing as a universally high quality partner because every person on the planet has a different definition of what they find uniquely attractive in their romantic partners. A high quality partner is someone who has a high degree of success and aptitude in all of the major areas of life that most people believe to be universally appealing. Excelling in one of these areas does not overcompensate for a complete lack in several others. They have to be well-rounded-ly fantastic. Let me say, without a shred of doubt or hesitation, that YES, these people absolutely exist. Not only do they exist, I actually wrote many lines of the aforementioned article based on real men that I know who love in exactly the way that I describe. These men are not fictitious. They are people who I see, on a weekly basis, loving their girlfriend, wives, and partners in precisely the way that I describe in the article that raised so many skeptical eyebrows.
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I'm recently single, and what I'm finding is this: There are a lot of good men out there! I know! Can you tell I'm pleasantly surprised? I hear people complain about about the lack of quality men, but I have to tell you, I'm finding just the opposite.
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